Fitness Simplified Podcast

Ep. 042 The Real Reason You’re Not Following Through (It’s Not Discipline)

Brooke Davis Season 1 Episode 42

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Summary

Ever feel like you know what to do… but still can’t seem to follow through?

It’s not a motivation issue. It’s not self-sabotage. It’s your mindset—and the invisible beliefs running the show behind the scenes.

In this episode, I’m breaking down:
 🧠 How stress, trauma, and outdated beliefs block habit change—especially during perimenopause
 💥 The real reason willpower keeps failing you (and what to use instead)
 ➡️ The exact mindset reframe I teach clients to overcome all-or-nothing thinking
 🛠️ Tools and rituals that actually help you follow through on your health goals consistently

If you're tired of starting over, beating yourself up, or wondering “what’s wrong with me,” this episode will help you finally get unstuck—and stay that way.


Keywords

mindset, habit change, growth mindset, limiting beliefs, chronic stress, perimenopause, self-sabotage, health and fitness, trauma, personal development


Takeaways

  • Most people know what to do but struggle to follow through.
  • Mindset is often more important than the plan itself.
  • Habits reflect our identity and beliefs about ourselves.
  • Behavior change begins with changing how we see ourselves.
  • A growth mindset allows for flexibility and learning from setbacks.
  • Limiting beliefs can create self-fulfilling prophecies.
  • Chronic stress and trauma can block habit change.
  • Self-sabotage is a protective response, not a failure.
  • Perimenopause requires a shift in mindset and approach.
  • Small, consistent steps can rebuild self-trust and lead to lasting change.


Chapters

00:00

Understanding the Struggle with Change

04:01

The Importance of Mindset in Habit Formation

10:15

Growth vs. Fixed Mindset: A Framework for Change

18:40

Identifying and Overcoming Limiting Beliefs

25:44

The Impact of Chronic Stress and Trauma on Change

34:29

Navigating Perimenopause: Mindset Shifts for Women

42:02

Practical Tools for Lasting Change


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